Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Forming Dreams (essay written for the U of A application)

“Either a nurse or a teacher” was always my answer when someone asked me what my plans were. That answer was fine until I entered my senior year and panic set in: “Mommy, I HAVE to know what I’m going to be, but how can I choose?”

I’ve loved anatomy ever since I can remember, but then I’ve always had a heart for working with children. Actually, I was on the job at the Drew County Boys and Girls Club when I got a call from my older brother, Peter: “Hey Martha, why don’t you come with me to an Urban Health Missions Conference in Los Angeles? Then you can see all the cool stuff you can do when you are a nurse like me.”

“How am I going to get out there?” I asked.

“I’ll pay your way.” He answered.

“Well, that sounds great to me!”

A few days later, when talking with my older sister Esther (also a nurse), I mentioned the travel plans. “Why don’t you stop by in Tulsa for a few days and shadow me at work? I can arrange it with my supervisor,” she suggested.

So a plan was formed for an amazing trip to discover nursing—from small-town Monticello, Arkansas to Tulsa to Los Angeles! I packed my bags in a flurry of excitement, impatiently waiting the three weeks until the travel dates rolled around.

For three days, I shadowed my sister in the ICU. I looked at chest tubes and saw blood transfusions in progress, examined heart monitors print-outs and x-rays of collapsed lungs, talked with confused old ladies and ultra-paranoid young men – and loved every minute of it!

Then the day came to fly from Tulsa to Los Angeles. Peter and I had tried hard to coordinate our arrival times, but I still had to wait an hour for him to arrive. Fortunately, everything went well (thanks to cell phones) and we were leaving in our rental car for our lodgings by nine p.m.

I live in Monticello, Arkansas—a small town of ten thousand people in the Arkansas delta. Exploring Los Angeles was an adventure from the start. “Hey Martha, look on the map and find somewhere to eat. I’m starved,” Peter ordered from the driver’s seat. The place I found was a Church’s Chicken in the middle of a downtown, rough neighborhood. “If we get mugged, it’s your fault.” Peter informed me as we looked at the bars on the windows and surrounding the cash register.

“Oh, thanks a lot!” I answered sarcastically.

The conference lasted for two days, but I would say that it was the conference together with the city that convinced me to be a nurse. I’ll never forget the experience of sitting through a session about healthcare for the homeless and then watching a ragged man panhandle outside of the Starbucks where we ate. Or listening to a lecture on gang youth and then wandering through the fringes of the tough barrios and seeing the graffiti.

That trip showed me the realities of life in the inner-city. When I told people at the conference that I wanted to be a nurse, but also wanted to work with children, the answer was “Why not both? Why not become nurse AND a Children’s Pastor? Both are desperately needed!”

So a plan formed to become a nurse to fulfill physical needs, and then go to Bible School to be better equipped to fulfill gaping spiritual needs. And that is my dream.

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

The White Flower

Night phone calls are rarely good news, and tonight was no exception. “Martha, you know the corner of Bushwick and Eighth?”

“Uh,” I tried to wake my mind into map gear, “Yeah.”

“The gangs have been fighting over it again. Esmeralda was walking home from the bus stop and – and she was hit by a stray bullet.”

I was suddenly wide awake, “What? Is she – is she dead?”

“Her heart stopped about an hour ago at the ER. They’ve already taken her to the funeral home. Her mom isn’t doing well, can you go see her?”

“Of course.”

I hung up and rolled over to look at the clock. It was three in the morning. I would have to wait for daylight to come before I could leave. In Bushwick, you don’t leave your house before the sun comes over the horizon unless you have armed bodyguards along.

I had taken Esmeralda on my Sunday School Bus Route a year ago. Every week on Saturdays she had waited, dancing with excitement, with three other kids for my ancient bus to groan around the corner and stop with the brakes screeching loud enough to be heard in Manhattan. She would jump aboard with a cheerful smile and “Hi Miss Martha!” and give me quick kiss before running to her seat near the back. Every Friday, I would climb the broken stairs to her tenement house on the fourth floor and visit her home and pray with her and her family. Now she was gone, leaving a grieving family and a hole in my heart.

The grey walls of the apartment building rose in front of me that morning, meeting the grey autumn sky ten stories above me. Graffiti of all shades covered the walls for about twenty feet, and then tapered off. I pushed open the swinging door and entered the dark hallway, the foul odor of urine making my nose smart. “SOLID” proclaimed the wall in front of me in stylized script— meaningless to the outsiders, to the residents it clearly proclaimed the presence of the Four Corner Hustler Gang. Over it, the picture of a bunny and the words “The Dark Side” showed the presence of the rival Gangster Two-Six. So those were the two who had been fighting, I thought as I picked my way over a shockingly thin man strung out on Meth. Nine flights up, I came to the fourth floor and knocked on the door to the right. It opened a crack and a frightened face peered out, then it swung wide and I saw Esmeralda’s mother. Her eyes were red-rimmed and empty. I stepped in and shut the door behind me. “I heard early this morning.”

The windows were grey with soot and the once-white walls were streaked with water stains. I took the woman in front of me into my arms as she burst into tears again. “It’s so senseless!” She wailed. “Where is God in this?”

A tear rolled down my cheek, “Talk to us, God.” I said softly. “What’s on your mind? Was this all in your plan?” My eye fell on a cup of dirt on the windowsill. A wilted flower hung limply over the side, trailing on the gray, chipped concrete.

Then, a picture rose in my mind of Esmeralda as I had seen her three weeks before. Sunlight struggled through the grimy windowpane and lightly touched her impish grin as she stood with her elbows leaning on the counter. The cup of dirt in her hands held a living plant then. “The seed package said the flowers would be red. Look, this bud is starting to open.”

“It looks to me like they’re going to be white. I wonder why.” I answered absently.

“Yeah, I asked God about that.”

This was getting interesting, “Yeah? Did he answer you?”

Esmeralda smiled and looked out the window thoughtfully. “Because, it’s the color of heaven. White – all clean, not like everything around here.”

I leaned down to look her in the eye, “Why did he change the flower to the color of heaven do you think?”

“Because,” She answered, her face brightening with another smile, “I’m going there soon. Ain’t always gonna live in the ghetto you know, it’s a whole lot better place there.” She set the flower in front of the glass where the light was brightest. The pure white showed up starkly against the grime of the dark world around it.